{"id":96,"date":"2011-08-12T10:25:48","date_gmt":"2011-08-12T15:25:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/litigationparalegals.net\/MobileWarRoom\/?p=96"},"modified":"2011-08-12T18:07:39","modified_gmt":"2011-08-12T23:07:39","slug":"real-world-lesson-special-guest-post-by-janabeth-f-taylor-r-n-r-n-c-litigation-paralegal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/litigationparalegals.net\/MobileWarRoom\/2011\/08\/12\/real-world-lesson-special-guest-post-by-janabeth-f-taylor-r-n-r-n-c-litigation-paralegal\/","title":{"rendered":"Real World Lessons, special guest post by Janabeth F. Taylor, R.N., R.N.C.\/Litigation Paralegal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\">REAL WORLD LESSONS<br \/>\nby<br \/>\nJanabeth F. Taylor, R.N., R.N.C.\/Litigation Paralegal<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust our sails.&#8221;<br \/>\n-Unknown<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">The beauty of the law is that it is dynamic\u2014it changes as society changes. The law adapts to technological developments, to shifts in social values, and to the problems of modern society. The key to succeeding in this dynamic legal environment is that we, too, must learn to adapt\u2014to adjust our sails.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">As I write this, I think of my fellow paralegals. I cannot help but see myself nineteen years ago, as a new graduate of the University of Oklahoma Law Center- Legal Assistant Division program. This program was very rigorous, and a highly regarded program. as well as one of the few in the Nation then accredited by the American Bar Association.<br \/>\nBack in 1992, I was working part-time in a law office while teaching nursing full time, with a few weekends of hospital work thrown in the mix to keep in touch with the \u201creal world of clinical nursing.\u201d The rest of my \u201cfree time\u201d was spent with studying and attending classes at the University of Oklahoma Law Center.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">In anticipation of graduation, I sent resumes to several law firms looking for the perfect place to begin my new career.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">One firm stood out in my job search. This firm was over 100 years old, and had attorneys with very different backgrounds and experiences. I was fortunate to be hired by this firm. Although I did not realize it at the time, working for this firm would be a life-changing and career developing experience for me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I worked with five different attorneys, each with his own style and personality. Very early<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I learned that part of my job was to adapt to their differing approaches and preferences. I was often \u201cadjusting my sails\u201d to accommodate them.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I was asked to work in areas of law that were unfamiliar to me. I had to learn to listen, to ask questions, to think creatively, to accept criticism, and to adjust my sails.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Some of the most important lessons I learned were not ones from a textbook. Among these \u201crealworld\u201d lessons were:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Most law offices are not like the ones depicted on shows like Boston Legal, Harry\u2019s Law, or Ally McBeal. And most attorneys are not going to look or act like William Shatner, Kathy Bates, or Calista Flockhart.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Do not assume; always verify the facts.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Pay attention to detail. No one ever lost a case by knowing the facts too well.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Never give an attorney an original or your only copy of a document.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Develop your own daily reminder system. This way tasks and deadlines don&#8217;t fall through the cracks, and also serves as a backup to the general calendar system of your firm.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Abide by a stringent, ethical code in your practice as a paralegal. Never give legal advice. Do not hold yourself out or in any way give the impression you are a lawyer.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Develop relationships with court personnel &#8211; treat them all with respect.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">If you don&#8217;t know the answer, know the resources you can use to find it. Knowing the<br \/>\nresource is half the battle. The other half is admitting you don\u2019t know the answer and<br \/>\nidentifying the question (s) to ask in order to utilize the resources you have available.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">If you make a mistake, admit it immediately. One can only correct a mistake if it is admitted to, recognized, and addressed. It may be hard to admit to a mistake, but early admission may make the critical difference in being able to rectify the error.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Don\u2019t be too quick to take \u201cno\u201d for an answer. Good paralegals always look for a way to<br \/>\nwork it out or get around an issue when someone initially says \u201cno.\u201d<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Proofread all work. One mistake can compromise your case. Even though I didn&#8217;t like it, I learned this lesson\u2014sometimes the hard way\u2014but I learned it.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Respect your attorney and the client by meeting or exceeding deadlines. No one has ever been fired for finishing a project early.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Conference frequently with your supervising attorney. Provide the attorney with a list of questions and topics for discussion prior to each meeting.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Always repeat back instructions as given to you when receiving an assignment. This way you can confirm you heard what the other person thought they were saying.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Networking is invaluable. You can never know too many smart people.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Treat legal secretaries and all support personnel in the office as equals. You will find that they know more about many things than you do and are valuable resources.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Listen and learn. Everyone has something to offer. You can learn from the most experienced of veterans and the most inexperienced \u201cgreenhorns.\u201d Great ideas sometimes come from the most unexpected sources.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Keep up with new court rules, changes in the law, and changes in technology. With each<br \/>\npassing year, computer technology plays a larger role in the practice of law.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Document, document, document&#8230;each task completed, each client communication, each conference with an attorney, and all deadlines.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Do not participate in office gossip; in the end it serves no purpose and is a distraction from your assigned tasks.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Regardless how adversarial your supervising attorneys are, it is important for the paralegal to be courteous, personable, and professional when dealing with court staff, witnesses, and opposing counsel<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Do not lose sight of who you are really working for: the client. You may have twenty files on your desk, but to each client, his file is the only one that is important to him.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">Join and participate in local, state and national professional organizations, and take<br \/>\nadvantage of continuing education programs offered to their members. Through these<br \/>\nactivities you can exchange ideas, learn new resources, and develop a valuable network of peers.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The most important lesson I have learned is that success can only be achieved on your terms. Everyone has his or her own idea of what a successful career is. Ultimately, true success is how each of us chooses to define it.<\/p>\n<p>When I left a 10-year career in nursing education to work for attorneys, my nursing colleagues thought I was crazy. When I changed careers again to be an independent paralegal\/ medical legal consultant, there were those who said I was crazy to leave the comforts and employee benefits provided when working for &#8220;the firm.\u201d But I am not crazy. I am happy. I am successful on my own terms.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let someone else decide what your success should be. If your success is not on your own terms\u2014if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart\u2014it is not success at all.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless of what original motivation steered us into this profession, most paralegals would agree we are heavily encouraged by our adversarial system\u2019s motivation to win, win&#8230;win!<\/p>\n<p>Without a doubt, assisting your attorney win for his or her client is a strong benchmark for the measurement of success.<\/p>\n<p>However&#8230;I prefer to think the true measure of a successful paralegal-attorney-client relationship is that of service. That would encompass service to the client and service to the client\u2019s best interest, regardless of whether you can record a \u201cwin\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The wind changed many times in my life and each time I adjusted my sails. My career has been an incredible journey. Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined in 1992 that I would be writing nineteen years later, addressing my peers, and telling of my experiences and life lessons.<\/p>\n<p>Each class, each job, each life experience along my journey was a foundation for my next step. I encourage you to learn from each case you assist with. Learn from each attorney you work with. Let each of these lessons be a foundation for your next experience.<\/p>\n<p>And, most importantly, when the wind changes adjust your sails. An incredible journey awaits you.<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/litigationparalegals.net\/MobileWarRoom\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/Janabeth-Taylor.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-103\" title=\"Janabeth Taylor\" src=\"http:\/\/litigationparalegals.net\/MobileWarRoom\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/Janabeth-Taylor.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"120\" height=\"161\" \/><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Janabeth F. Taylor, R.N., R.N.C. has a degree in Nursing from Oklahoma State University and Litigation Paralegal Certificate from the University of Oklahoma Law Center. She was a nursing instructor for ten years and has been a medical legal consultant since 1990. Ms. Taylor is currently President\/Ow ner of Attorney&#8217;s Medical Services, Inc. in Corpus Christi, TX. In 2002 she was named the Association of Trial Lawyers of America&#8217;s (AJJ) Paralegal of the Year. <\/em><em>She provide s litigation support for attorneys across the United States and specializes in case reviews and Internet inform ation resources.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<em>Her website is: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.attorneysmedicalservices.com\">http:\/\/www.attorneysmedicalservices.com<\/a> <\/em><br \/>\n<em>and her e-mail address is: <a href=\"mailto:jana@attorneysmedicalservices.com\">jana@attorneysmedicalservices.com<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>REAL WORLD LESSONS by Janabeth F. Taylor, R.N., R.N.C.\/Litigation Paralegal &#8220;We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust our sails.&#8221; -Unknown The beauty of the law is that it is dynamic\u2014it changes as society changes. 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